Today’s society is fueled by glamor, style and fashion and the never ending race to keep up with it all. In such a society, it is difficult for most people to come to terms with what they are and the so called standards that the “elite” set for others and for themselves. In a society like this, the ability to build self confidence is truly a huge asset anyone could have.
There are many reasons for building self confidence. Two important reasons are stated in this article.
Lets you come out of your shell
There is no time when self esteem boosters won’t come in handy to some one. Building self confidence lets you come out of your private shell and gives you the ability to meet life’s challenges head on. You feel stronger and more in control of you life and how events shape around you. With this one thing, you could be a LOT happier in life. Someone who is afraid of meeting challenges in life will always be miserable even if they have a LOT to be thankful for.
Lets you grab opportunities
Being low on self confidence will force your hand to turn away from the best of opportunities that life presents to you. This happens because people are uncertain as to whether they will actually be able to take advantage of the opportunity being presented to them or not. They have doubts about them selves as to whether they have what it takes to exploit the opportunity or not. Then, there is the fear of loosing out on what they currently have incase they don’t succeed. They eventually settle for what they already have in life even if its very little and makes them miserable.