If the reason that you are in the situation with your spouse is because you have been unfaithful there are things that you should and shouldn’t do to help. If there is something that you did that is the problem, don’t tell them that you can change or try to talk them into believing it, make the change. If you seriously want to know how to stop a divorce start with accepting responsibility.

Obviously, actions speak much louder than words. If it is something that is a matter of trust that you have hurt, avoid doing it again at all costs. In fact, don’t do anything that will give your spouse any reason to question your faithfulness. If you want your spouse to love you and trust you, you most definitely have to prove that you are worthy of trust again. It will take time and hopefully you have not burned them so much that they will never trust you. If you have broken trust, the truth is you don’t deserve to be trusted.

It is the efforts to be faithful that will assure them that you are changing. Own up to the fact that you have taken advantage of their trust. Don’t get mad because they don’t trust you and don’t argue about it. If you messed up, own up and take responsibility.

There may be situations where the one you love has been guilty of destroying their trust or has been guilty of infidelity. Wouldn’t you want your spouse to give you another chance If you feel that you would be it very well may be that they deserve one as well. Place yourself in the other persons shoes and treat that as you would like to be treated. It is important to try and understand the reason this happened. It very well may be that it can be resolved. Many times, however, it can not be.

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