Best Ways To Build A Strong Marriage

Falling in love and getting married embarks on a journey which can turn sweet or sour depending on the way we drive through it. A successful marriage emerges from being the right mate, rather than finding one. It is a commitment of a lifetime, which is built over trust, love and respect. Marriage entails being available to our partners, understanding them, sharing their grief and laughter, dreaming their dreams and supporting their goals. Let go of the ego and profess unconditional love that makes marriages more successful. Couples in troubled marriages need to have open and deep communication between them to share their issues and concerns. This fosters a deep understanding and care for each other. Do not be a stranger to your partner or you will end up living separate lives. Success of a marriage will depend upon the emotional dependence of the partners, their trust on each other and the balance which they are able to keep between their ego and love. It all points to unconditional love for each other. These traits can only be nurtured by constant and conscious efforts from both partners. Such a marriage will withstand any stormy circumstances. How to build a strong marriage? Building strong marriage is a continuous process which evolves over time with the marriage itself. Couples need to show each other how much they are loved and valued. The lack of appreciation triggers a feeling of discontent and insecurity which leaves the door wide open for dissension to come in. Honesty is of utmost importance for building a strong marriage. When you speak truth, trust follows automatically. Relationships...

The Truth about Extra-Marital Affairs

While it is true (and unfortunate) that some marriages end because on spouse has fallen out of love, had an affair and found love with another, for the most part, this is not what extramarital affairs are about. Extra marital affairs have been in existence from time immemorial in every society. In the so-called sophisticated western societies it has become a trend or regarded as an additional qualification to boost one’s self-esteem to say that he or she has a ‘lover on the side’! However morally, ethically wrong or sinful to have an extra marital affair. Marital Affairs – Why it Happens The reasons for marital adultery are as many and as varied as the people involved. Some experts, has categorized the causes for extramarital adultery as follows: conflict avoidance, intimacy avoidance, sexual addiction, split self, and exit. Marital Affair Risks A marriage just has enough places for 2. Any 3rd person is bound to wreck havoc and cause immense hurt and pain to your spouse, children, family and eventually to you as well. However rosy it may seem, do not get carried away by the feeling that the liaison is going to last forever. In Addition – It’s practically impossible for husband/wife to have a wife/husband and a lover together in his/her life for long. You have to make a choice sooner or...

Why Is Marriage So Hard?

Do you ever ask yourself this question? You met your darling and everything was very good before marriage. After you got married many things have changed. Your superhero is now more like a zero and your sweetheart is like a puzzle you don’t have a clue where even to start. With all the pressures of this world no wonder we don’t really understand what love is all about. Hollywood movies super blast the illusion that love is a physical attraction and a feeling. I watched a movie this week and wondered how a love like that could be fulfilling. No wonder there is so much divorce and broken relationships, people don’t understand what true love is like. Every person on this earth has a deep longing for a deeper fulfilling love. That’s not to say that you shouldn’t marry someone that you love, because you should.  However, if you don’t understand that marriage is a business arrangement first, the love that you have won’t last. Marriages can last if both parties understand and prepare for the unexpected. You can’t always think its peaches and cream. I think a couple that makes a headstrong advance into the American dream only to find out they are losing their American dream can only signify the loss and report back to similar times that are their normal range and it has no setbacks. A couple from a high life style that lost the American dream crashes into something they can’t handle and end in divorce. In Closing: – Making a marriage last needs thought, but isn’t difficult. All you need is compromise and...

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