Live Your Life So It’s Not Full Of Regret

It is all too easy to put your life on hold while waiting to meet Mr or Mrs Right, to think ‘Oh, I’ll eat at that restaurant/do that romantic springtime walk when I’ve got a partner.’  The truth is that ‘now’ is not a rehearsal – we get one chance at life and we owe it to ourselves to make the very best of it we can. Have the courage to be true to yourself and not live the life others expect of you Stop Working So Hard A nice one to remember next time you’re stressed to the max. Without exception people regret having put work ahead of seeing their children grow up or spending time with loved ones. While work can be satisfying and rewarding it isn’t the be all and end all of life. As Maya Angelou said ‘people may forget what you do, forget what you say but they will never forget how you made them feel’. Spending time with our loved ones makes them feel loved, cared for and appreciated – in short, priceless. Learn To Express Your Feelings Often we repress our feelings in order to keep peace with others but the result can be that we never become who we are really capable of becoming. Learn to be your own champion, fight for what you believe in and never be afraid to stand up for yourself. You won’t regret it. Too many people develop illnesses relating to bitterness and resentment and the stress of feeling powerless and repressed in their lives – set yourself free. Let Yourself He Happy Learn how to...

How to Live Without Regret

“The saddest summary of life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.” ~ Unknown We all have something saved in our memory banks of the past that we wish we could have done differently, or something we wish we didn’t do. A successful life is, I believe, one that can be viewed from its end without regrets. May this will help you: 1. Don’t hurt anybody. This means anybody, but especially those close to you. And if you hurt someone inadvertently, make amends. 2. Be your own loving caregiver. Rejecting and neglecting yourself are painful. You are worthy because you exist. Practice feeling affection and appreciation for yourself. Allow yourself to feel pleasure. 3. Share. Learn to self-reveal. Give others a peek into your inner world. Disclose your thoughts, experiences, feelings, and dreams. You have the power to light up a life or brighten a room with your presence. 4. Forgive people. Every person is a product of his own past that has little to do with you. Don’t get wounded by another person’s stuff. 5. Stay away from toxic people such as those who are still reliving the past and attempting to bring you into it. 6. Do what pleases you. Be brave. Be honest to yourself. Also, write a diary. Looking back on it might provide some perspectives and give you a glimpse of all the things you have done / experienced. Every life is unique in its own way. 7. We have so little control over our lives actually. The only things we can control are our actions. If you regret decisions/actions you...

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