Positive Attitude For Self-Improvement

One of the first things to do when you begin self-improvement is to check your attitude. As you go through your day take some time and listen to your thoughts. What do you think about when you go shopping? Would you label your thoughts as positive or negative? While shopping are you always worried about the price of products and your lack of sufficiant monies to shop the way you want? As you go about your day thinking your thoughts. Do you think the people around you and the people you meet know your thoughts? Although people will not know exactly what you are thinking, they will more or less know how you are feeling. Our thoughts effect us and every one around us. When we go where we are known the people who know us can tell what kind of mood we are in. We are definitely not alone with our thoughts. Thoughts are very powerful. They affect your general attitude. your attitude effects your appearance. Your thoughts are so powerful that they effect the people who you chose as friends and the people you chose to associate with. A person with positive thoughts have invigorating effects on people they come in contact with. People who are with some one who has a positive attitude are usually energized by there thoughts. At the same time if you are around people with a negative attitude you with feel your energy being sapped. Negative thoughts make you look gloomy and sad and can turn a happy occasion into a funeral wake. Studies show that a positive attitude promotes better health....

How to Realize You Control Yourself

Remember the good ol’ days of grade school or even high school when the teacher was away for the day and we had a substitute teacher? Remember how we misbehaved when the teacher was away? There’s a really good reason for that. If there isn’t a heart to heart connection with the person of authority, as soon as they’re away we find freedom to make choices our way. While you were growing up did you have the freedom to make choices or were you living in fear of being disciplined for making wrong choices or mistakes? Were you taught to love yourself or were you taught that there was someone else in power and it wasn’t you? As an entrepreneur you have an opportunity to help others finally see that they are in control of themselves. For me I’m still struggling with the idea that I have control of my choices. I have a responsibility to be a leader for myself. There isn’t a person of authority making choices for me anymore. So consequently the fear I felt for making wrong choices has become fear of taking control or leading me. And since I’m still living in fear I’ve been taught that I can control others with fear too. If I’m afraid then you need to be afraid too. I’d like to take the actions necessary to change that attitude. Have you ever heard the saying, how can you love someone else if you don’t love yourself? How can you lead others if you’re afraid to lead yourself? Take a look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself...

How To Look Good; In Anything And Everything

You want to look good. We all want to look good; here you will discover how to look good in anything and everything. Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson Some people have a mole on their face and spend time and money in disguising or hiding it, or in some cases having the mole removed. Some who have no facial blemishes will spend time and money on a ‘beauty spot.’ We have no control over what people think about us. What they think is their business. How we think and feel is our business. So the first step in how to look good in anything and everything is to feel good about ourselves. Love what you’ve got. Liking who we are and learning to Love Ourselves was an article I wrote.and is key in how to look good in anything and everything, to summaries the main points: Make a list of all our achievements. List all those things that we like about ourselves Know ourselves, our beliefs, values, goals and purpose Understand and know that we are doing the best that we can. If we could do better we would. Have compassion for ourselves, think what would we say and do to a friend who was in our situation? Understand our motivations Be true to ourselves 2. Be you! Kate Moss, Elle Macpherson and Hugh Grant are all taken; and there amazing benefits in being you. as you will discover in this post The amazing benefits of being you; Happiness...

Knowing Things About Yourself

I am not going to play a philosophical game of semantics here. That would be something like: If you are both the subject and the object, how could the first know the other? It is like two mirrors facing each other- just as self the subjects seeks to know what it is it becomes the object, like a dog running around chasing its tail. You realize you can never see your eyes of course; only their reflection. Such discourse adds nothing to the meaning of your life as far as I’m concerned, and in fact, I’ll go ahead and be bold enough to assert that this is exactly what self-analysis is. The fact is that you are a dynamic agent! A doer, a shaper and mover- these are your main attributes and responsibilities. You help make the world what is, by doing. Now I would assert that you can know yourself best by your actions. If a man drinks and gets into bar brawls and mistreats his family then that is what he becomes. Or at least that is a side to him. But consider a person who treats people with kindness and fairness, who is sensitive to the needs and wants of others and is attentive. A person who is generous and often buys people thoughtful little knickknacks, well then that person is entirely different isn’t she? My point is that we become what we act like, and that’s mostly what defines whom you are. The other aspect is our own inner thoughts and feelings, but though they may seem hidden, they too will eventually show themselves through...

How The Power Of Passion Breeds Success

The power of passion is an amazing thing that can propel you to great heights if used correctly. Most of us associate this emotion with how we may feel to another, however it is also the ‘force’ behind many a person’s great success. This emotion can and will increase both your patience and your personal productivity. These are two things you will need to call upon if achieving great success in any aspect of your life is a goal of yours. Let’s break it down and see how your own passion can boost your personal productivity thereby helping you gain great success in whatever is the focus of your efforts. Energy Passion equals enthusiasm and this in turn is reflected in the energy you bring to anything you feel this way about. Obviously the more energy and enthusiasm you have the more this will affect your personal productivity. Focus If your interest levels are high this will increase your ability to concentrate which is something you need to do in order to perform at your best. If great success is to ever be yours in any area of your life, you will need to be able and perform at your best! Perseverance Being passionate about something gives you the ability to endure in times when things may not have gone your way. When your patience and willingness to ‘stick with it’ increases in this way your ability to succeed does the same. Attraction The enthusiasm you experience when you are passionate about something is noticeable and does rub off onto others. Passion also makes you more positive minded which...

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